10 Years Later

2020 has managed to be quite a terrible year, and the horrific isolation of coronavirus, it certainly has given quite a bit of time to think about things. This is the first year I’ve ever shared this story so extensively, I previously wrote about it on my blog, and now I’m writing it here. I do finding healing in writing sometimes. I did not realize until this year how much of this I am still working through. Oh, and content warning for stalking (obviously), harassment, sexual abuse in detail, and more.

Gay life was quite different in 2010, and I had just gotten out of my first real adult relationship…